Balan

When faced with difficulties we have options out of which we choose one. Our choice reflects our attitude to life. What is important primarily is not to make any choice in anger as the mind does not think logically when a person is angry.

The second most important thing is optimism. If we believe that problems can be solved, solutions do appear, usually. This might be partly because an optimistic person never gives up trying.

The third factor is believing in oneself. Self-confidence often makes the difference between success and failure. No matter what others say, if you believe in a cause sincerely or have a dream, hold it very close to your heart. The very act that you respect your ambition or dream, will help you in realizing it.
The use of ethical means is a must when dealing with obstacles to our success. If the means are dishonest, no lasting happiness can be the result. It is better to choose failure than choosing corruption because for an honest person true success comes in the long run.

Troubles come in every person’s life. How you deal with them determines how successful you are in making your own way.

BUT BE SINCERE TO YOURSELF, ALWAYS..EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS, DESIRES..FEARLESSLY, OPEN, ALL MAY NOT APPRECIATE, BUT FEW WILL STILL UNDERSTAND YOU.

To enjoy peace, mankind must be directed by the
ideals of Dharma. This depends on the mutual toleration in
the family. That is again based on individual conduct that is
sathwik (pure and righteous), and aims at pleasing
everyone. Such conduct has a charm, all in its own.  Avoid in
your behavior, actions, and in your speech, all trace of pain and
desire to hurt others, to insult others or to cause misery to
others. Find out the best means of reforming yourself and thus
practice this type of living. Desist from injury to yourself and for
your own good, walk always in the path of Truth. That is verily the
path of Beauty, that is the conduct that is really
charming.